I’m wearing my first full Lolita Coord…
(Dress, petticoat, wig, socks, etc) and to be honest, when I looked in the mirror, I cried. Like serious, tears down my face, cried. For the first time in a very, very long time I truly and honestly felt beautiful. I wasn’t even wearing any makeup but I still thought I looked stunning. Not ‘quick glance in the mirror’ pretty but ‘no matter how long you stare it doesn’t go away’ pretty. It is such a wonderful feeling and I know that I need to get more dresses and JSKs and the like. I didn’t really know how different it made my overall emotions to just feel comfortable with how I look. I feel like I can do anything. I feel like I can go out and talk to people without fear of stuttering. I feel like I can give a presentation at school without begging the teacher to let me opt out. I feel like I can at least partially get over my anxiety.
I just want to thank any and every person I know who is involved in the Lolita community. I have never spoken to a ‘mean’ or ‘elitist’ Lolita and all the Lolita blogs I follow and who follow me are wonderful and run by beautiful people. You guys helped me so much with so many things. Giving me confidence to start and to buy my first dress. Inspired me to learn to sew (which, I admit, I still have much to learn). Helped me know where to buy and where not to (I never made the Milanoo mistake).
Basically what I am saying is Lolita has helped me gain confidence and I hope it continues to. I have all the wonderful Lolitas on Tumblr to thank.
This is why I Lolita. <3
Bravo to you.
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